Being happy – do you have what it takes to be happy?

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Are you happy?  Do you know how to gain happiness? What do ‘experts’ say happiness is?

 

 

10 insights from the planet’s foremost experts on the fabric of happiness in the 21st century:


1 “Feel the real — happiness is not the absence of sadness. I’ve never lost a patient to terminal crying.”


2 “Happiness is the absence of stress-related thoughts and memories, toxic hostility, Type-A responses and a hysterical amygdula.”


3  “We are wired for good, and we can cultivate a good life through things like meditation and boosting our oxytocin levels. Touch and expressions of gratitude boost this neuropetptide that floats through the bloodstream, which spreads trust and compasison.”


4   “Realize, experientially, the absence of self. That’s genuine happiness.”


5  “The wonder of the voice is that it’s the only musical instrument that we carry around with us all the time. If you use your human voice in song, you will be happy. It takes you away from all the troubles of the world.”


6  “Attaining the conditions of happiness in its highest form is to care for the collective soul, our collective life-force.”


7 “When it’s ‘normal’ that every workplace offers massage, meditation, three organic meals a day, and lets you bring your dog to the office, our work will be done. If everyone develops mindfulness from the inside out, we will make world peace.”


8  “Happiness is Platonic, Darwinian hedonism.”


9  “Pursuit, according to Samuel Johnson’s dictionary, means ‘to follow with hostility’. It doesn’t go with happiness.”


10  “Happiness is freedom from excessive self-concern.”

 

 

To see whose definitions these are go HERE

 

To read a very interesting article on happiness by Craig Lambert go HERE

Street art celebrated

The Wooster Collective’s celebration of street art is HERE

One I particularly liked is;

 

someones-supermarket

I always find simplicity and re-contextualization powerful – you can’t get much simpler re-contextualization than ‘Someone’s Supermarket’!

Of course it depends on the eye to see and the heart to feel – and the wit to chuckle!

Who will you be spending Christmas with?

If like me you are lucky enough to spend Christmas with someone you love spare a thought for those who are in some form of slavery;

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Ram Dass Interview

Ram Dass - WikiPedia
Ram Dass - WikiPedia

An interesting interview of Ram Dass by David Jay Brown and Rebecca McCLen Novick is available online HERE

David Jay Brown : I see that you have Bob Dole on your altar. That’s a nice touch.(laughter)

Ram Dass : I take the person who most closes my heart and I watch my heart close as I look at their picture.

David : What was it that originally inspired your interest in the evolution of human consciousness?

Ram Dass : I’m inclined to immediately respond – mushrooms, which I took in March 1961, but that was just the beginning feed-in to a series of nets. Once my consciousness started to go all over the place, I had to start thinking it through in order to understand what was happening to me. It wasn’t until after I’d been around Tim Leary, Aldous Huxley and Alan Watts, that I started to reflect about issues like the evolution of consciousness.

David : Was there a common denominator between what drew you to study psychology and what drew you to spiritual transformation ?

Ram Dass : I am embarrassed to admit what drew me to psychology. I didn’t want to go to medical school. I was getting good grades in psychology and I was charismatic and people in the psychology department liked me. It was as low a level as that. My whole academic career was totally out of Jewish anxiety, and issues surrounding achievement and adequacy. It was totally socio-political. It had nothing to do with intellectual content at all.

David : You talk about that time in your life as if it was a period of simple bad judgment, but wasn’t it also a necessary part of your evolution ?

Ram Dass : Well, that’s different. I was, after all, teaching Freudian theory. Human motivation was my specialty, so I thought a lot about all that stuff. That served me in very good stead because it’s an exquisitely articulated sub-system. If you stay in that sub-system, it’s very finite and not very nourishing. But when you have a meta-system, and then there’s the sub-system within it, then it’s beautiful, it’s like a jewel – just like with chemistry or physics.

But when I was in it, it was real. When I was a Freudian, all I saw were psycho-sexual stages of development, and as a behaviorist all I saw were people as empty boxes.

Rebecca McCLen Novick : You seem to be able to incorporate and apply some of the things you learned as a psychologist to this larger understanding of the human condition.

Ram Dass : Everything I learned has, within that relative system, validity. So, if somebody comes to me with a problem, they come to me living within that psychological context. I have incredible empathy for their perception of reality, partly because of what I’ve been through in it. You’ve got to go into the sub-system to be with the person within it, and then create an environment for them to come out of it if they want to. That seems to me to be a model role for a therapist.

It’s also showed me a certain kind of arrogance in Western science. Here was Western science really ignoring the essence of what human existence was about and presenting it as if concerns about that were some kind of bad technique.

Full interview available online HERE