What’s the difference between spirituality and religion?

What's the difference between spirituality and religion?
What's the difference between spirituality and religion?

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How doĀ you answer the question above?

Below is how far I have got with this issue.

Spirituality is how we relate to the unknown and unknowable – to Ultimate reality – and the meaning and motivation we derive therefrom.

Our worldview, as a consequence, is how we ‘read’ the world. Our worldview includes that of which are conscious, plus that which derives from enculturation. Ā Becoming more fully conscious of Oneness, and actingĀ accordingly, is our purpose.

Religion is the agreed set of relationships, teachings and customs held in common with any religious group of which one has membership.

Progress in spirituality is measured by regularly bringing oneself to account – in relation to the standards of your spirituality, world-view and religious group/s (if any).

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Etymological issues:

The English word “religion” is derived from the Middle English “religioun” which came from the Old French “religion.” It may have been originally derived from the Latin word “religo” which means “good faith,” “ritual,” andĀ other similar meanings. Or it may have come from the Latin “religĆ£re” which means “to tie fast.”

Doing your own research:

A very good starting point is provided by the Ontario Consultants on Religious Tolerance. Ā See HERE

The definitions I like best from this source are;

George Hegel: “the knowledge possessed by the finite mind of its nature as absolute mind.”

Paul Tillich: “Religious is the state of being grasped by an ultimate concern”

Others are;

The Religious Tolerance group tell us that David Carpenter has collected and published a list of definitions of religion, including:

Anthony Wallace: “a set of rituals, rationalized by myth, which mobilizes supernatural powers for the purpose of achieving or preventing transformations of state in man or nature.”

Hall, Pilgrim, and Cavanagh: “Religion is the varied, symbolic expression of, and appropriate response to that which people deliberately affirm as being of unrestricted value for them.”

Karl Marx: “Religion is the sigh of the oppressed creature, the heart of a heartless world, and the soul of soulless conditions. It is the opium of the people.”

Don Swenson defines religion in terms of the sacred: “Religion is the individual and social experience of the sacred that is manifested in mythologies, ritual, ethos, and integrated into a collective or organization.”

Paul Connelly also defines religion in terms of the sacred and the spiritual: “Religion originates in an attempt to represent and order beliefs, feelings, imaginings and actions that arise in response to direct experience of Ā the sacred and the spiritual. As this attempt expands in its formulation and elaboration, it becomes a process that creates meaning for itself on a sustaining basis, in terms of both its originating experiences and itsĀ own continuing responses.”

He defines sacred as: “The sacred is a mysterious manifestation of power and presence that is experienced as both primordial & transformative, inspiring awe & rapt attention. This is usually an event that represents aĀ break or discontinuity from the ordinary, forcing a re-establishment or recalibration of perspective on the part of the experiencer, but it may also be something seemingly ordinary, repeated exposure to which graduallyĀ produces a perception of mysteriously cumulative significance out of proportion to the significance originally invested in it.”

He further defines the spiritual as: “The spiritual is a perception of the commonality of mindfulness in the world that shifts the boundaries between self and other, producing a sense of the union of purposes of self andĀ other in confronting the existential questions of life, and providing a mediation of the challenge-response interaction between self and other, one and many, that underlies existential questions.”

My final question – “Why are there so many religious intolerance groups?”

To read the full article by the Religious Tolerance group go HERE

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True achievement, success and happiness lie in being fully and positively human –

through our caring our creativity and our criticality ā€“

developed via service to the communities to which we belong.

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Ten ways to bridge and transcend racial and religious hatred

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The campaign Charter for Compassion are asking for contributions for the final charter. Ā Here is my first draft contribution;

Compassion and Peace: ten ways to bridge and transcend racial and religious hatred

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1 See the Golden Rule as the equivalent to a language in addition to your own – “My ‘mother tongue’ is Islam/Christianity/Buddhism etc but I also speak ‘the Golden Rule’ – so that I can be a sister/brother to peoples of all religions and none.

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2 Implore people like Barack Obama to spend money on deepening cultural understanding – say 10% of the military budget switched to Arabic/Islamic, Chinese and Russian studies. Generate an ‘open data-base’ of experience learned.

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3 Encourage all countries to massively increase exchange programmes. Ā Send everyone with a ‘We’ve got these problems how are my host country dealing with them’ pack – and require a thorrough de-briefing upon return to home country – we must see that the most important problems are held in common, and that we must pool answers.

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4 Use the knowledge as a data-base for university and school respect for other cultures courses – instead of allowing our societies to continue falsely claiming that the mad fundamentalist minority = the reality of the whole communuity.

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5 Get celebrity goodwill ambassadors for the GR – include business people , they have more interchange with ‘foreigners’ than any other group. Ā Get pop groups talking and singing about it.

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Get Barack Obama talking about it – and Nels Mandela, and Archbishop Tutu etc.

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6 Start teaching the Golden Rule – one school at a time – everywhere.

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7 Generate badges, widgets and bling for websites, windows, clothing that conveys messages such as – ‘I speak oneness and diversity’. ‘We support the GR’, etc (Get some adverstising agencies working on it).

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8 Support studies of fundamentalism – focus on ways and means antidotes and prophylactics. Ā The best writers on fundamentalism may not be in obvious academic fields – the best I have found isĀ 

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9 Look for ‘out of the box’ solutions such as brilliant comedians such as Omid Djalili and Shazia Mirza.

If you don’t like strong comedy don’t go – but I suspect that Omid, and the others have ‘lanced more religious boils’ for the general population than all of the politicians and academics put put together!

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10 Support ways and means for deeper applications of the Golden Rule – we need courses from nursery to university epecially based on the brilliant writings and work of a) Eckhart Tolle, b) Ken Wilber and c) Karen Armstrong.

Eckhart Tolle article HERE

Set your goals to motivate your success – through ‘singing’ your ‘uni-verse’

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In my work as a life-coach I lead people to develop and focus their life-force so that they can get from where they are at, to where they want to be.

Getting in tune with your self and your life’s purpose is central to such achievement and success.

Getting in tune with you self and your life’s purpose is a matter of harmonization ā€“ of vision, goals, plans and actionĀ  and of head, heart and circumstances.

To ‘sing one’s song’ is a metaphor for finding and staying tuned with your life’s purpose.

Harmonization is also a matter of getting in touch with our inner wisdom.Ā  Chinese wisdom places great emphasis on harmony.Ā  Inner and outer harmony are both important.

Outer harmony depends on inner harmony.
Inner harmony depends on being, doing and having in relation to our life purpose – i.e. getting alignment.

We need to get alignment between head and heart, and between the activities of our inner and outer lives. Then we get ‘flow’ – when we are able to function in energized harmony – like an athlete ‘in the zone’.

Episodes of silence are vital.

If we are in a situation we don’t see as getting us toward our dream then ‘see it differently’ – that is see it as a stepping stone, as opposed to a mill-stone!

Decide on your life’s purpose – don’t worry it will evolve via experience – and further reflection.

Locating, tuning and singing your ‘song’ also requires a sufficiency of silence and experiences of living in the now ā€“ see my Eckhart Tolle articles and better still read and listen to Eckhart Tolle.

Just DECIDE and START!Ā Ā  (‘Ready. Fire. Aim!)

Set your goals – and work your goals day by day.Ā  How? – here’s one way great way.

For every day draw 4 circles.

1st circle =Ā Ā  My Lifelong Dream,

2nd circleĀ  = My Year,

3rd circleĀ  =Ā  My month,

4th circle =Ā Ā  My day.

Keep the 4 circles of your personal universe in harmony via working to your daily goal-setting.

The ‘universe’ as Wayne Dyer reminds us means ‘one song’.

Live your life singing your single, harmonised, song and you will succeed.

Harmony here is what enables us to be focused, and motivated.

Plan and work every day to achieve toward your monthly goals – etc.

Periodically adjust them all according to each other, so you have the motivation of always operating in a single, harmonized universe.

Keep the dream sharply visualized.

Don’t be afraid of adjustments – think of life as a ship’s journey – course corrections are inevitable and necessary.

Occasionally remind yourself of these two quotations;

1 “If you don’t think about the future, you won’t have one.” Henry Ford

2 “The future enters into us, in order to transform itself in us, long before it happens.” – Rainer Maria Rilke

Rainer Maria Rilke’s statement takes us even deeper by telling us that we create our future by what we are.

Balance doing, knowing and having with being.Ā  The current master of ‘being’ is – Eckhart Tolle.

If you don’t plan your journey don’t be surprised if you end up somewhere you don’t want to be!

Have fun singing your song – literally as well as metaphorically.

Keep the dream – even if a ‘credit crunch’ means you have to do stuff that is a temporary delay.

Sometimes just surviving is the biggest step you can make that particular day – but that day in the future will be seen as being just as important – because you didn’t give up!

Survival is sometimes progress.

Sometimes survival is the best singing of your song possible on that particular day.Ā  It’s still worth celebrating – you can’t sing at your own wake!

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I once used What’ll we do with a drunken sailor as a class song but be careful, a full rendition of all verses would remove all desire to go on living!Ā  Others might be shocked as to how brutal was the British Navy of that time.

What’ll we do with a drunken sailor,
What’ll we do with a drunken sailor,
What’ll we do with a drunken sailor,
Earl-aye in the morning?

Chorus:
Way hay and up she rises
Patent blocks o’ diff’rent sizes,
Way hay and up she rises
Earl-aye in the morning

1. Sling him in the long boat till he’s sober,
2. Keep him there and make ‘im bale ‘er.
3. Pull out the plug and wet him all over,
4. Take ‘im and shake ‘im, try an’ wake ‘im.
5. Trice him up in a runnin’ bowline.
6. Give ‘im a taste of the bosun’s rope-end.
7. Give ‘im a dose of salt and water.
8. Stick on ‘is back a mustard plaster.
9. Shave his belly with a rusty razor.
10. Send him up the crow’s nest till he falls down,
11. Tie him to the taffrail when she’s yardarm under,
12. Put him in the scuppers with a hose-pipe on him.
13. Soak ‘im in oil till he sprouts flippers.
14. Put him in the guard room till he’s sober.
15. Put him in bed with the captain’s daughter*).
16. Take the Baby and call it Bo’sun.
17. Turn him over and drive him windward.
18. Put him in the scuffs until the horse bites on him.
19. Heave him by the leg and with a rung console him.
20. That’s what we’ll do with the drunken sailor.
Source

You won’t believe the background to this song see WikiPedia HERE

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NB This article was inspired by Steve Chandler’s brilliant ‘100 Ways to Motivate Yourself’, one of my Top 10 Personal Development texts.

The Credit Crunch and Managing Motivation

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The Credit Crunch and Managing Motivation: goal-set to motivate your success through ‘singing’ your ‘uni-verse’

In my work as a life-coach I energize people to get from where they are at, to where they want to be.

Getting in tune with your self and your life’s purpose is central to such achievement and success.Ā  Getting in tune with you self and your life’s purpose is a matter of harmonization.

Chinese wisdom places great emphasis on harmony.Ā  Inner and outer harmony are both important.

Outer harmony depends on inner harmony.

Inner harmony depends on being, doing and having in relation to our life purpose – i.e. getting alignment.

We need to get alignment between head and heart, and between the activities of our inner and outer lives. Then we get ‘flow’ – when we are able to function in energized harmony – like an athlete ‘in the zone’. Episodes of silence are vital.

If we are in a situation we don’t see as getting us toward our dream then ‘see it differently’ – that is see it as a stepping stone, as opposed to a mill-stone!

Decide on your life’s purpose – don’t worry it will evolve via experience – and further reflection.

Just DECIDE and START!Ā Ā  (‘Ready. Fire. Aim!)

Set your goals – and work your goals day by day.Ā  How? – here’s one way great way.

For every day draw 4 circles.
1st circle =Ā Ā  My Lifelong Dream,
2nd circleĀ  = My Year,
3rd circleĀ  =Ā  My month,
4th circle =Ā Ā  My day.

Keep the 4 circles of your personal universe in harmony via working to your daily goal-setting.

The ‘universe’ as Wayne Dyer reminds us means ‘one song’.

Live your life singing your single, harmonised, song and you will succeed.

Harmony here is what enables us to be focused, and motivated.

Plan and work every day to achieve toward your monthly goals – etc.

Periodically adjust them all according to each other, so you have the motivation of always operating in a single, harmonized universe.

Keep the dream sharply visualized.

Don’t be afraid of adjustments – think of life as a ship’s journey – course corrections are inevitable and necessary.

Occasionally remind yourself of these two quotations;

1 “If you don’t think about the future, you won’t have one.” Henry Ford

2 “The future enters into us, in order to transform itself in us, long before it happens.”Ā  – Rainer Maria Rilke

Rainer Maria Rilke’s statement takes us even deeper by telling us that we create our future by what we are.Ā  The current master of ‘being’ is Eckhart Tolle.

Have fun singing your song.Ā  Keep the dream – even if a ‘credit crunch’ means you have to do stuff that is a temporary delay.

Sometimes just surviving is the biggest step you can make that particular day – but that day in the future will be seen as being just as important – because you didn’t give up!

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NB This article was inspired by Steve Chandler’s brilliant ‘100 Ways to Motivate Yourself’, one of my Top 10 Personal Development texts.

Captain Bob, adventure, self-education, motivation and tall ships!

What do you get if you add self-education, adventure, reflection, motivation and tall ships. Answer you get Captain Bob!

Tall-ships training – just one of Captain Bob’s projects for youth

I found this remarkable man and his site whilst looking for stuff on motivation. It is a treasure-trove of great ideas.

There is much to learn from him re many areas of life.

Here are his ‘revolutionary’ (but common-sense) views concerning the way we deal with (abuse) our youth. He is talking about the USA abut things are about as bad in the UK and other countries;

Our Society is at WAR with Our Youth!

The following articles illustrate the urgent need for education reform. Teenagers, in increasing numbers, are walking away from the public education system. Some high schools have a 70% dropout rate. More money is not the answer, the answer is found in alternative education methods.

We are at WAR with 30% of our teenagers, the one’s who drop out of high school. We are loosing this war, because our weapon is to pass MORE laws that pressure them to comply with the system. This has not worked and never will. These young people need alternative opportunity, NOT JAIL CELLS! After all, there is not much difference between a classroom where one is not wanted and a jail cell where one is not wanted. To many, a classroom is a prison without bars.

Many of these teenagers are highly intelligent, but they cannot adapt to passive learning environments, they reject the classroom form of education, therefore, they simply choose to walk away from the system. Through self-fulfilling prophecy they consider themselves failures and become a burden on society. In a different learning environment they can discover their natural talent, develop it and become productive citizens.

Mindset of Street Gangs
They are highly intelligent, ambitious, want to learn, and be recognized as an achiever.
Wiz Kids go to Jail
Wiz kids are put in jail because they refuse to conform to passive classroom learning environments. Because the education system labels them FAILURES, they turn to criminal activity to be recognized.
Drugging Students to Accept the Status Quo
Society is now drugging our youth with behavior control pills, nulling the skill that makes them creative. They learn to accept the status quo. This new generation may make a comfortable living, but they will have lost the ability to be innovators. Soon, America will have a generation of people who can earn “A’s” in the classroom, but have no vision in the real world.
Teaching Young Students to be Failures
The typical high school teaches 30% of its students to be failures. This is because the curriculum only recognizes academic skills and students intelligence is measured by this standard. Non academic skills and associated intelligence are ignored, skills these students could excel at.

To go to Captain Bob’s website including the ‘let’s-care-better-for-our-youth’ section click HERE

His Table of Contents is useful because it is a large site

Captain Bob’s 3 part model

Is this the No 1 site on experience-based motivation?

I think it is pure gold. The issue is how to get local governments and communities and education authorities to listen – really listen and really committ sving the millions that youth-gone-toxic cost our societies – let alone thir own misery!

He’s collected some pretty good quotes as well. E.g.;

“Leadership is constantly changing, and survivors learn to change with it.”
“Yesterday, natural resources defined power. Today, knowledge is power. Yesterday, leaders commanded and controlled. Today, leaders empower and coach. Yesterday, leaders were warriors. Today, they are facilitators. Yesterday, managers directed. Today, managers delegate. Yesterday, supervisors flourished. Today, supervisors vanish.”
— Dr. Denis Waitley, The Toastmaster, December 2000.

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Inspiring quotations help keep your motivation high – vitamins for the heart, soul & mind – take one per day!

Inspirations to Motivate us for Success – vitamins for the heart, mind and soul!

New project – starting on 26th May -first monthly installment of quotations that I find inspiring and motivating.

Here are my late-May & June ‘get-motivated-for-success’ favourite quotations. They are ones that inspire and motivate me and I hope that they will help to develop further your success, happiness and prosperity!

Send me your favourite inspirations for success, happiness and prosperity and I will share them with others

As with multi-vitamins take one per day!

Enjoy – and let them be the wind beneath your wings!

MAY

26 “The biggest mistake people make in life is not making a living at doing what they most enjoy.” – Malcolm S. Forbes

27 “You don’t have to be great to start, but you have to start to be great!” – Zig Ziglar

28 “A moment’s insight is sometimes worth a life’s experience.” – Oliver Wendell Holmes

29 “You make a living by what you get, but you make a life by what you give.” – Anon

30 “Optimism. The doctrine or belief that everything is beautiful, including what is ugly.” – Ambroce Bierce

31 “We are all worms, but I do believe I am a glow-worm.” – Winston Churchill

JUNE

1 “Education is what survives when what has been learned has been forgotten”. – B.F. Skinner

2 “Motivation is a fire from within. If someone else tries to light that fire under you, chances are it will burn very briefly.” – Stephen R. Covey

3 “Your vision will become clear only when you can look into your own heart. Who looks outside, dreams; who looks inside, awakens.” – Carl Jung

4 “All of the top achievers I know are life-long learners… looking for new skills, insights, and ideas. If they’re not learning, they’re not growing… not moving toward excellence.” – Denis Waitley

5 “If the doors of perception were cleansed everything would appear to man as it is, infinite.” – William Blake

6 “Motivation is what gets you started. Habit is what keeps you going.” – Jim Ryun

7 “Success is going from failure to failure without losing enthusiasm.” – Winston Churchill

8 “Know yourself. Don’t accept your dog’s admiration as conclusive evidence that you are wonderful.” – Ann Lander

9 “Motivation is the art of getting people to do what you want them to do because they want to do it” – Dwight D. Eisenhower

10 “Perhaps all the dragons in our lives are princesses who are only waiting to see us act, just once, with beauty and courage. Perhaps everything that frightens us is, in its deepest essence, something helpless that

wants our love.” – Rainer Maria Rilke

11 “Our attitude toward life determines life’s attitude towards us.” – Earl Nightingale

12 “Not everything that can be counted counts, and not everything that counts can be counted.” – Albert Einstein

13 “Your talent is God’s gift to you. What you do with it is your gift back to God.” – Leo Buscaglia

14 It is only with the heart that one can see rightly, what is essential is invisible to the eye.” – Antoine Saint-ExupĆ©ry

15 “Optimism is the one quality more associated with success and happiness than any other.” – Brain Tracy

16 “I shut my eyes in order to see.” – Paul Gaugain

17 “Motivation is like food for the brain. You cannot get enough in one sitting. It needs continual and regular top up’s” – Peter Davies

18 “Obstinacy in opinions holds the dogmatist in the chains of error, without the hope of emancipation.” – John C. Granville

19 “One comes to believe whatever one repeats to oneself sufficiently often, whether the statement be true of false. It comes to be dominating thought in one’s mind.” – Robert Collier

20 “You will never leave where you are, until you decide where you’d rather be.” – Dexter Yager

21 “People travel to wonder at the height of mountains, at the huge waves of the sea, at the long courses of rivers, at the vast compass of the ocean, at the circular motion of the stars; and they pass by themselves

without wondering.” – St Augustine

22 ā€œWhat is it to function holistically? My answer = To proceed in all particulars with a sense of the whole.ā€ Roger Prentice

23 ā€œConcepts are delicious snacks with which we try to alleviate our amazement.ā€ – A J Heschel

24 “Your work is to discover your work and then with all your heart to give yourself to it.” – Buddha

25 ā€œThe utterances of the heartā€” unlike those of the discriminating intellectā€” always relate to the whole.ā€ Jung

26 “Motivate them, train them, care about them, and make winners out of them… they’ll treat the customers right. And if customers are treated right, they’ll come back.” – J. Marriott

27 “He who is plenteously provided for from within, needs but little from without.” – Goethe

28 “Abundance is not something we acquire. It is something we tune into.” – Wayne Dyer

30 “One sees great things from the valley, only small things from the peak.” – G. K. Chesterton

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All postings to this site relate to the central model in the

PhD. Summaries are HERE

SEE also Learning Motivation for Success